women ain’t crying over men anymore, they’re dishing back the hurt they received.

I refuse to allow the lack in control of men to lessen my love for love. I love love and ill never allow the actions of the other person to shift my belief. Ive been cheated on by 4 past lovers and out of the 4 I’ve cheated back once. To make it worse i only done it out of spite, it felt good at the time because my ex reacted and felt the exact way i wanted him too but in the long run i was still hurting. Its not even worth it “to get even” you’re literally lowering your standard to match his and thats what i done. Two wrongs really don’t make a right, it makes you a fool. Men cannot bare the same hurt they put women through, they will hurt you 1000 times and the moment you hurt them, chest pain arises and they cant breath, they’re dying. Then they use that one hurtful experience as an excuse to do dirty to every woman they encounter because they now have trust issues. Trust issues is on the table now, they wont hide the fact that they’ve been hurt, they will let you in on that one, thats them “indirectly” letting you know that IF they do you dirty, this is why. Manipulation. Some men will use manipulation to get their own way throughout a relationship by turning the argument back on you to make it seem like its all your fault or you caused it, he wont take responsibility for his wrong doings, may make you feel unworthy of him, does things to make you feel jealous or act crazy, give you mixed signals and the list goes on.

Revenge on someone who hurt you isn’t worth it, take it from me. It may make you feel good in the moment but it wont mask the fact that you’re still hurting. The best thing to do is to leave them to it, and as much as it is bothering you don’t let it show.


If you know this applies to you, take it very personal. Don’t allow the action of an unfaithful woman to shift your idea of love or your belief. We’re NOT all the same and it isn’t fair to take your frustration out on every woman you get involved with. We’re not all out to hurt you. And STOP getting involved with women with your trust issues!!!!! We don’t want to be a victim of your past hurt nor does it have anything to do with us.

What’s hard in being single if you want to live the single life?

Things could be so simple if everyone stated their intentions from the start. I also understand that things and feelings can change during a relationship but communication is key!!!

Don’t get even, get right with you and do right for you.

Published by Shanshaniese

Express to release from within, hold nothing back and feel free. 💎 I express from experience whether it be from myself or those around me. I also share my opinion on selected subjects in which i wish to share with you. Hope you enjoy 🌹

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